The ultimate flowering of a person is there when one lives in love, happiness, peace and harmony, which according to me are the basics and the ultimate of Spirituality. But this fulfilment, expresses differently in Man and Woman.
A man when fully bloomed has pure innocence, he becomes child-like.
For a woman, innocence is natural, it’s inbuilt. A woman is fully bloomed with motherhood. Motherhood is her ultimate flowering.
While a man finds solace in the woman’s arms, in her bosom, in her lap. A woman is happy being a mother, taking care, protecting, feeding. And these are so natural to her that signs of such behavior can often be seen very early in life. She would gently stroke the head, or allow somebody to relax in her lap, hold someone’s hand for reassurance to others or even just be around and her being around is very comforting.
A successful marriage would result in a husband becoming a child to the wife and the wife becoming a mother to the husband. And this is so beautiful, a subtle way to awakening and ultimate fulfilment.
How about for a women who is not interested in marriage, who has never indulged herself in any kind of sexual desire or activity and this is not suppression but concious choice because doesn’t feel attraction.
I have always asked bold questions from many Masters. मैं जब कोई सवाल पूछ लेती तो वो लोग चिढ़ जाते और फिर वो खीज कर मुझे ऐसे जवाब देते की मैं चिढ़ जाती। कभी तो उनके भाव ही काफी होते उत्तर की भी जरूरत नहीं होती। फिर उस जगह कभी वापसी नहीं की।
There was a time in my life when I concluded why anyone in this world would bother about me. I am responsible for my seeking and I have to find my answers, my truth. I am blessed with a very understanding father who has not imposed any kind of social stigma on me like marriage.
Then for the past 10 years I have not visited any spiritual place only discourses and books. And the solitude of the mountains with myself. This was my decision I will never go to any Guru because I never felt any reverence for anyone inside me. The fear is still the same if that reverence would be born inside me for anyone.
How about for a women who is not interested in marriage, who has never indulged herself in any kind of sexual desire or activity and this is not suppression but concious choice because doesn’t feel attraction.
Will she never get fulfilment in her life then?
I have always asked bold questions from many Masters. मैं जब कोई सवाल पूछ लेती तो वो लोग चिढ़ जाते और फिर वो खीज कर मुझे ऐसे जवाब देते की मैं चिढ़ जाती। कभी तो उनके भाव ही काफी होते उत्तर की भी जरूरत नहीं होती। फिर उस जगह कभी वापसी नहीं की।
There was a time in my life when I concluded why anyone in this world would bother about me. I am responsible for my seeking and I have to find my answers, my truth. I am blessed with a very understanding father who has not imposed any kind of social stigma on me like marriage.
Then for the past 10 years I have not visited any spiritual place only discourses and books. And the solitude of the mountains with myself. This was my decision I will never go to any Guru because I never felt any reverence for anyone inside me. The fear is still the same if that reverence would be born inside me for anyone.
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