Marriage can be the most wonderful thing or it can be the ugliest thing in life. Marriage is not useless, but we have the capacity to make it worthless if we want or else make it worthwhile. In marriage a man and woman want to walk together, enter into the depths of life in togetherness.
If in marriage, two people become dependent on each other, then it is agonising. Being in marriage with each other, we can bring an end to the mutual dependence and discover mutual inter-connectivity. There is a deep inter-connectivity between us, between the people as well as the entire world and this can be easily understood by means of love. Marriage opens up an
opportunity to enter into this love and discover the inherent inter-connectedness.
But when marriage persists to be a bondage and a constant channel of mutual exploitation alone, with love, sensitivity and understanding missing from it, then it is better that the man and woman separate.
Mostly divorce takes place in infuriation and ill feeling, but now some people are opting for conscious separation. Conscious separation is that state when husband and wife are able to see with awareness that now staying together is
hampering the natural and healthy progress of one another.
When bondage is taking dominance over life and liveliness is being destroyed, then both of them decide with mutual understanding to break free of each other and go in for a fresh beginning of a new life. And now people have also begun to celebrate this conscious parting. This is pointing to a good change coming up in society.
To be able to celebrate each opportunity of life is good. To continue being good friends, to continue respecting each other, even after divorce are steps leading to constructive changes.
So far we have hardly been able to establish conscious marriage, in the circumstances to develop conscious parting is indeed difficult, but good that it is happening. First we need to incorporate consciousness in marriage. Instead of making marriage a bonding for lives, we should try to lead this life
with complete sensitivity, love and understanding.
To constrain relationships in the bindings of society and legalities destroys their liveliness. Relationships should not be a binding but made a journey of freedom. It is not freedom from each other but a freedom of the self from one self. It is deep and undivided love that ends the bondage and teaches us
to soar high in the limitless sky of consciousness.
Naman.
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